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I'm no longer directionally challenged--I have a clear vision to celebrate #MOREin2014 via GANEPossible.com. Preempting my novel in progress, Bluebirds, I'm very close to releasing my first GANE Possible publication (prescriptive "Dr. Mom" nonfiction), Beating the Statistics: A Mother's Quest to Reclaim Fertility, Halt Autism & Help Her Child Grow From Behavior Failure to Behavior Success. I'm also working on completing my memoir, My Grandfather's Table: Learning to Forgive Myself First.

It took a lifetime to get here. This blog documents my quest to self-fulfillment through my writing, and ultimately to shifting my focus to Beating the Statistics & My Grandfather's Table and speaking about them. They are the wellness and the memoir parts of my journey that had to be told, so that Bluebirds can one day be the meaningful, but fictional *story* it aspires to be.

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Mom, There's Something I Have to Tell You...

11/26/2012

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Says my fourth grade son, very seriously, today after school.  The deep breath and pursed lips told me this was going to be big. 

“I know you put my presents under the tree.”

“What are you talking about?  We don’t even have a tree yet.”

“At Christmas, before, I know you’re the one that puts my presents under the tree.  Matthew Owen said.”

My disappointment was surely palpable.  I didn’t want this day to come.  Had I known that last year was the last year he would believe, I would have savored it more. 

I do remember thinking to myself that 2011 would likely be the last Christmas my last baby would believe in Santa Clause.  Sometimes I hate being right all the time.  Well, most of the time.  OK, sometimes.

I took a long breath myself, stalling, trying to think of a way to convince him otherwise, “And what do you think about that?”

He thought a moment; even put his finger up to his lips, and looked skyward. 

Then he threw his arms around my ample middle and rested his head on my soft breasts, because he’s still that small, and said earnestly, “I just want you to keep doing it!” 

He looked up at me with the smile that always melts my heart, and the love that is always in his eyes, and I felt his thank you, even if he didn’t have the words to say what he was feeling. 

This boy of mine, who almost wasn’t.


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Kerstin @ Auer Life link
11/26/2012 02:35:44 pm

My kids are 11 and 15 and even though we talk openly about everything and I have always believed in saying it like it is, Santa remains that one big mystery...
I tell them that Christmas is magical and even though they look at me and say that they are very skeptical about the whole thing, they still seem to be holding on.

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Kim Gane link
11/26/2012 03:49:13 pm

I'm still holding out hope to pull it out of my behind...like a letter from Santa or something. I was so taken aback...just wasn't fast enough on my feet. The tears were trying to take over too quickly. :/ Thanks for visiting!

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Kimberly link
11/26/2012 11:20:07 pm

oh I love seeing the sparkle in their eyes when they experience the "magic" of Christmas. But that magic is still there because you make it happen.
I'm so glad that he's taking it so well.

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IASoupMama link
11/27/2012 04:28:26 am

My son is in second grade -- he's my oldest -- and I can feel this coming any minute, too. I hope that I can get to him first and explain that he needs to pretend until his sisters are old enough to know, too. Hugs, mama...

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Kim Gane link
11/29/2012 03:30:19 pm

We talked about what a responsibility it is to have such information & that it was important to keep it to himself. After I failed to convince him, "You don't believe, you don't receive," that is. :/

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Alexa link
11/27/2012 02:58:48 pm

Followed you from Just Write. What a sad moment! My kids are only 5, 2, and 11 months, but I already dread the day...

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Kim Gane link
11/29/2012 03:33:13 pm

Thanks for stopping by, Alexa! My son has two grown sisters & it's amazing he didn't find out sooner. I'm so pleased that they allowed him to enjoy the magic as long as they did. Of course, I would have killed them had they ruined it for him (me)!

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